Yes it's an oil catch tank on the DFV.
Other two questions are rather vague so it's hard to answer. The offset steering wheel does not ring a bell, which Brabham and Tyrrell models are you thinking of, specifically ? Same thing about your gearbox question : "British F1" is very vague indeed and anyway the vast majority of F1 constructors (whether British or not) in the DFV years did not build their gearboxes but used Hewland ones. As long as those were 5-speed the pattern was the same as virtually every racing 5-speed gearbox (which I have always used in simracing as well) :
X-2-4
1-3-5
The reason for such gearbox grids of course being that you want to minimize the instances where you have to make a lateral movement when changing gears, to avoid missing a gear and over-revving the engine. As the first gear is usually only used for starts on most racing cars, with this pattern you only cross from third to fourth gear, instead of crossing from 2 to 3 and 4 to 5.
When 6-speed boxes were introduced (around 1977/78 IIRC) it obviously switched to :
1-3-5
2-4-6
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